Comments on: 5 reasons why many long distance relationships fail http://xatal.com/life/5-reasons-why-long-distance-relationships-fail/ Bringing you safely through high school and into college Wed, 28 Jul 2010 07:03:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Here Be Answers! http://xatal.com/life/5-reasons-why-long-distance-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-2961 Here Be Answers! Thu, 26 Nov 2009 12:15:40 +0000 http://xatal.com/?p=2038#comment-2961 Nice article :) I think all the relationships are bound to fail, sooner or later, no matter what. Actually, there's nothing like relationships in the world. It's all psychotic delusions. All that's there is contracts of give and take, which we call relationships just to so that it sounds nice and comforting. Nice article :)

I think all the relationships are bound to fail, sooner or later, no matter what. Actually, there’s nothing like relationships in the world. It’s all psychotic delusions. All that’s there is contracts of give and take, which we call relationships just to so that it sounds nice and comforting.

]]> By: claire@Love Quotes, Letters, Advice http://xatal.com/life/5-reasons-why-long-distance-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-2860 claire@Love Quotes, Letters, Advice Mon, 16 Nov 2009 04:59:08 +0000 http://xatal.com/?p=2038#comment-2860 Long distance relationships should be avoided as much as possible. People tend to fall in love with someone else who's around. Long distance relationships should be avoided as much as possible. People tend to fall in love with someone else who’s around.

]]> By: david@mini laptops http://xatal.com/life/5-reasons-why-long-distance-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-2569 david@mini laptops Sun, 25 Oct 2009 17:57:40 +0000 http://xatal.com/?p=2038#comment-2569 Nice one. I am emailing this link to my girl friend! Nice one. I am emailing this link to my girl friend!

]]> By: Debbie Drummond@Newport Lofts condos http://xatal.com/life/5-reasons-why-long-distance-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-2499 Debbie Drummond@Newport Lofts condos Sun, 18 Oct 2009 19:09:44 +0000 http://xatal.com/?p=2038#comment-2499 Well i think it's all about understanding & self respect. I know it's really hard to maintain a long distance relationship. There are many hurdles, but i really think understanding between two persons do matters. I don't think that it fails, that person remains in your heart forever. I have a quote to share " Things are things, it has no power to hurt or heal, only people can do that. It's up to you whether to be hurt or heal by the person you care". So if you not able to give proper time to your relation it's your fault & it's up to you to fix it. Well i think it’s all about understanding & self respect. I know it’s really hard to maintain a long distance relationship. There are many hurdles, but i really think understanding between two persons do matters. I don’t think that it fails, that person remains in your heart forever. I have a quote to share ” Things are things, it has no power to hurt or heal, only people can do that. It’s up to you whether to be hurt or heal by the person you care”. So if you not able to give proper time to your relation it’s your fault & it’s up to you to fix it.

]]> By: Sammy http://xatal.com/life/5-reasons-why-long-distance-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-2489 Sammy Sat, 17 Oct 2009 10:52:52 +0000 http://xatal.com/?p=2038#comment-2489 Not all long distance relaionships are doomed but at a young age they are going to break down as people change. Sometimes you have to cut your losses and agree to stay friends. Not all long distance relaionships are doomed but at a young age they are going to break down as people change. Sometimes you have to cut your losses and agree to stay friends.

]]> By: Biodun @ The Medical Blog http://xatal.com/life/5-reasons-why-long-distance-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-2430 Biodun @ The Medical Blog Wed, 07 Oct 2009 02:44:15 +0000 http://xatal.com/?p=2038#comment-2430 Nice post, one of the reasons long distance relationship fails is that some people have already set themselves up for the failure, believing it wont work. I believe it can work if you put the time and effort into making it work, being in a long distance relationship isn't easy! But yet to me it does work if its a mature relationship! Nice post, one of the reasons long distance relationship fails is that some people have already set themselves up for the failure, believing it wont work.
I believe it can work if you put the time and effort into making it work, being in a long distance relationship isn’t easy! But yet to me it does work if its a mature relationship!

]]> By: Paul http://xatal.com/life/5-reasons-why-long-distance-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-2428 Paul Tue, 06 Oct 2009 22:31:54 +0000 http://xatal.com/?p=2038#comment-2428 @ Mark: I definitely agree with people oddly pushing the line. It's fine if the couple agrees that it's okay, but in most all circumstances, they haven't. @ Mark: I definitely agree with people oddly pushing the line. It’s fine if the couple agrees that it’s okay, but in most all circumstances, they haven’t.

]]> By: mark@Commercial Coffee Makers http://xatal.com/life/5-reasons-why-long-distance-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-2426 mark@Commercial Coffee Makers Tue, 06 Oct 2009 22:12:09 +0000 http://xatal.com/?p=2038#comment-2426 Long-distance relationships so often happen in college when people are high school sweethearts, but I hardly see any of them last. I think that cheating is absolutely inexcusable, but I'm always surprised at how many people like to get really close to the line. I am the type of person that thinks that even flirting is crossing the line, but not a lot of people agree. Long-distance relationships so often happen in college when people are high school sweethearts, but I hardly see any of them last. I think that cheating is absolutely inexcusable, but I’m always surprised at how many people like to get really close to the line. I am the type of person that thinks that even flirting is crossing the line, but not a lot of people agree.

]]> By: Burt http://xatal.com/life/5-reasons-why-long-distance-relationships-fail/comment-page-1/#comment-2410 Burt Mon, 05 Oct 2009 22:27:27 +0000 http://xatal.com/?p=2038#comment-2410 No matter whether it's a long-distance relationship or not, the ultimate determinant of whether one's relationship is likely to last is the long-term compatibility between the individuals. I've read lots of articles and books on how to figure out if you would be compatible with another, and the best I've come across is a brief e-book by Hayden Dane available at www.haydendane.com. Dane makes a convincing argument that long-term compatibility is a function of...surprise...Admiration. I had never given admiration a thought, but after reading Dane's book I'm convinced he's right. In the book, Dane describes a conversation to be had between two people to determine their long-term compatibility. If you have this conversation, even if you were to encounter some of the things that create a challenge in a long-distance relationship, it's likely you would work your way through it if the conversation suggested you had strong long-term compatibility. Give it a read; well worth your time. No matter whether it’s a long-distance relationship or not, the ultimate determinant of whether one’s relationship is likely to last is the long-term compatibility between the individuals. I’ve read lots of articles and books on how to figure out if you would be compatible with another, and the best I’ve come across is a brief e-book by Hayden Dane available at http://www.haydendane.com. Dane makes a convincing argument that long-term compatibility is a function of…surprise…Admiration. I had never given admiration a thought, but after reading Dane’s book I’m convinced he’s right. In the book, Dane describes a conversation to be had between two people to determine their long-term compatibility. If you have this conversation, even if you were to encounter some of the things that create a challenge in a long-distance relationship, it’s likely you would work your way through it if the conversation suggested you had strong long-term compatibility. Give it a read; well worth your time.

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