Comments on: Long distance relationships: Should we stay together or break up?

By: Chan

Chan — Mon, 09 May 2011 06:39:38 +0000

i am in a LDR for 7 months. We have been together for almost 2 years. but recently, i personally feel that i can’t keep this r/s going anymore. I feel irritated when my partner gets too close and hangs out with her new friends so often. She will go out once she gets a call from them in the midst of our skype conversation. Or she will hang out late with them till late night and they almost do everything together, cooking, groceries and etc. I am unhappy seeing her too happy with other people and i feel i have been put aside. What should i do? To care less and shouldn’t be bothered by her life overseas?

By: LDR advice

LDR advice — Sat, 23 Apr 2011 03:26:44 +0000

My boyfriend and I have been basically living together for a year and a half and are best friends, and did 4 months of long distance (2 hours away). However now he has graduated from college and is continuing his education at a university 18 hours away (plane ride), while i’m stuck at my university for another 2 years at least, and he’ll be gone from 2 to 3 years. I may be able to see him in the summers but he’ll still be 2 hours away. What are your opinions on what we should do?

By: @

Tue, 23 Nov 2010 03:54:13 +0000

Thinking about being separated with a long distance relationship is hard when you are still together trying to work it out. But as soon as you go your separate ways the distance and time apart take a toll. That’s why most don’t last that first year. Somehow the head starts to win over the heart. Your article makes some good points in assisting this cool headed thinking. It makes sense to have your head do some work while you are together.

By: Pheromones

Pheromones — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 04:39:52 +0000

When I went off to college it was a given that the current relationship simply needed to end…Why? Because long distance relationships very rarely actually work! When the do work the seem to be more trouble than they’re actually worth. Sometimes it’s best to just grow a pair, be adventurous and actually go out and meet someone else! Change…The only true constant in life…Period!

By: pheromones

pheromones — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 02:27:01 +0000

I had a long distance relationship that lasted for about a year and a half and to this day I will never forget her. She eventually moved on and lives in Indiana. We had such great talk over a long period of time. I miss her. Oh well, life goes on right?

By: how to save a relationship

how to save a relationship — Sat, 19 Jun 2010 03:14:25 +0000

It’s true about the clingyness in a relationship. Too much of it can cause a partner to withdrawal themselves from you. Its always important to maintain a 50/50 balance in a relationship…

By: pheromones

pheromones — Sat, 19 Jun 2010 03:12:01 +0000

It is always important to keep the communication open in long distance relationships. They can actually work if you maintain the longevity aspect of it.

By: Relationship break up advice

Relationship break up advice — Tue, 20 Apr 2010 18:51:47 +0000

This blog is just really true and many people can really relate about that scenario and I think, it’s really up to the couple already if they still want to keep their relationship especially all because of their love.

By: Carrie@getexbackproductreviews

Carrie@getexbackproductreviews — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 17:42:22 +0000

You have some good points. A long distance relationship puts a lot of stress on a couple. Most young people just entering college aren’t mature enough to handle that long term. It takes two really strong and committed people to make it work. It’s kinder by far to break things off if you are doubtful that you really want to make a commitment like that.

By: Paul

Paul — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 05:40:41 +0000

@Michael: I think you have every reason to at least try it out. I think continuing a casual relationship beyond high school into a distance relationship is a bad idea, but you two sound like you’re somewhat serious and know what you want. I say definitely give it a chance.